About

Welcome to Christian Marriage Headquarters!  Thank you for coming to our website!  Our prayer is that your marriage will be blessed through our site.  Here is a little about us and why we started  Christian Marriage Headquarters.

How We Met

My name is Nikki and my husband is Jonathan.   Jonathan and I met at church. We were both raised in the African Methodist Episcopal Church.  For those who are not familiar with this denomination, each year a Bishop decides whether he will send the pastor to another church or allow him to continue pasturing his current church.  Jonathan’s father is a pastor and when I was 12 years old the Bishop assigned his father to my church.   We developed our friendship for two years.  After two years of becoming best friends, he asked me to be his girlfriend.

We both knew by my sophomore year in high school that we wanted to get married.  We were perfect for each other.  We had the same beliefs and values.  We dated through all of high school and broke up a few times during college.  However, our love for each other never died. We still talked on the phone and we would visit each other at our schools.  We decided that it was foolish of us to be apart so we dated for the last three years of my college career and then we got married.  I know it was only by the grace of God and the loving, patient characteristics of my husband that our relationship has stood the test of time.

Why We Started Christian Marriage Headquarters

Jonathan and I decided to start this website because we wanted to help other marriages.  I was raised in a single parent home and Jonathan was raised in a two parent home.  I was raised by my father and he did an excellence job.  However, I was able to see firsthand how important it is to have both parents in the household.

As I stated above, Jonathan came from a two parent home.  Through him I learned that having both parents does not mean that everything goes well.  His parents also have done a great job raising him and his siblings, however, because no one is perfect his parents left some room for Jonathan to desire something different.  My desire for a long lasting marriage combined with Jonathan’s determination for a better marriage drives us to study the bible for guidance in our marriage.

We begun seeking guidance once we were engaged.  We went to our first marriage seminar and loved it.  This seminar sparked the beginning of our endeavor to accumulate resources that we can refer to for additional guidance outside of the bible.  Over the course of our marriage we have developed a extensive amount of reference materials.  This is when we decided we should help other Christian marriages with the resources we have and with the word of God that we have study for our own marriage.

Our Goal

Our desire is to be used by the Lord to help as many marriages as possible.  If you find our site to be a blessing to you, please spread the word so that other couples can be encouraged as well.  Thank you!